As the holidays approach, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the expectations, traditions, and endless to-do lists that seem to define this time of year. But what if we took a step back and reclaimed the holiday season for what it truly is—a time for joy, connection, and meaning? This season, let’s challenge ourselves to create a holiday that truly reflects our values and brings joy without the stress. Here’s how you can start.
Let Go of “Always” and “Should”
One of the most powerful things we can do is to release the “shoulds” of the season. Just because we’ve always done things a certain way doesn’t mean we have to continue. Holiday traditions can be wonderful, but it’s okay to let them evolve along with our lives and family dynamics. Society and social media might create an image of the “perfect” holiday, but that doesn’t have to define your holiday.
Simplify and Focus on What Matters Most
A simpler holiday is often a more joyful one. Think about what truly matters to you and your family, and focus your time and energy there. Is it gathering around a meal together, sharing stories, or enjoying quiet moments of reflection? Maybe it’s finding ways to give back. When we simplify, we create space for the things that bring genuine joy and connection instead of running ourselves ragged, trying to keep up with everything.
Be Intentional with Each Tradition
Take a moment to think about the things you really want to do this season—and the why behind them. Are these activities aligned with your values and bringing joy, or are they obligations that drain your energy? Sometimes, the best way to enjoy the holidays is by making intentional sacrifices, only focusing on what truly matters to you and your family.
Put Down the Phone and Be Present - This Holidays Embrace What Matters
Being present with your family, especially during the holidays, is a gift that lasts longer than any present under the tree. Let’s take time to truly be there with our loved ones—enjoy our children’s laughter, share meaningful conversations with teens, and connect with the people around us. Often, these simple moments of presence are the most memorable. Set aside distractions, embrace the moment, and watch how much deeper your holiday experience becomes.
Keep Christ at the Center
For those who celebrate Christmas, keeping Christ at the center of the season can bring immense peace and purpose. When we focus on Him, we find that everything else begins to fall into place. Think about planning intentional moments to read scripture, share stories of Jesus, and do activities that bring your family closer to Him. Let’s remind ourselves that His love is the true reason for this season and let it guide our days.
Expect Miracles
The holiday season is also a time of miracles. When we’re mindful and open-hearted, we often find small blessings and unexpected joys. This year, let’s look for those miracles around us—the warmth in a loved one’s embrace, the peace in a quiet moment, or the smile on a child’s face. By taking a step back and embracing an intentional, faith-centered holiday, we open ourselves to the small wonders around us.
Your Holiday, Your Way
So, here’s a little “homework” for all of us: take a moment, maybe an hour, to reflect and set intentions for how you want to spend the rest of the year. Consider the values and activities that bring you peace, joy, and connection, and plan from there. This holiday season, focus on what truly matters, create memories with intention, and open yourself to the simple joys that make the holidays beautiful.
Holidays: Embrace What Matters
Here’s to a holiday season filled with less stress, more joy, and the peace that comes from celebrating what truly matters. Let’s take back our holidays and make them something meaningful, joyful, and uniquely our own.
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